A couple of weeks ago I flew off the handle, and pretty much cornered T into a long overdue discussion. It’s been over five months since he walked out on me, I still don’t really understand why, and most definitely don’t understand his current behaviour with respect to the children. I believe this is a risk because things could easily slide into all-out war given the current astronomic level of misunderstandings and tension between us.
So I suggested we met up in a bar for a big talk, and…if all goes well, this will happen tomorrow night. Ghaaaaaaaaa!
So far, I have managed to stick my head in the sand and ignore the
dreaded upcoming date, but now that it’s nearly there, I feel like I’m going for the hardest job interview ever with no clothes on, or something…What should I say? What should I do? And most important of all, what should I wear?
In terms of objectives, I would like us to start getting back on tracks towards trusting each other again, because I see this as a major issue : It clouds all our interactions, and loads the slightest negotiation about the children with lead. But how do I go about that? And how will I manage to surf the wave of fear, anger and sadness which submerges me every time I see or hear him?
Ok, so how about some homework for you dear readers: What’s the advice ?